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Beyond Survival: Danielle Wiggins on Breast Cancer, Faith, and Learning to Live Again
Learn how Ohio TV journalist and breast cancer survivor Danielle Wiggins is approaching a significant milestone in her recovery.
The Pain No One Believed: Esther’s Long Fight to Be Heard
Discover Esther’s long fight to be heard after years of debilitating pain, dismissal and misdiagnosis, leading to an endometriosis diagnosis and a plea for women’s pain to be taken seriously.
TWSC Series: JournHE to the AltHER - Meet Blossom Parkinson
Read about Blossom's journey to the altar that is still unfolding, and how her relationship with herself has changed.
TWSC Series: From Her Journey to the Altar to Helping Other Women Find Their Way
Discover how Cindel Pluviose turned her journey of faith, healing, marriage, and personal growth into JournHE to the AltHER, a mentorship for women.
When the Time Is Right — “I, the Lord, Will Make It Happen.” (Isaiah 60:22)
After nine years of marriage and seemingly unanswered prayers, God brought a long-awaited blessing. A beautiful reflection on surrender, hope, and divine timing.
Confidence in Every Shade: Nancy Brittney’s Mission to Include Every Woman
From pageantry to beauty innovator, Nancy Brittney launches cosmetics line with 26 foundation shades focused on inclusivity and empowering women with albinism.
4 Ways to Deal with Vulnerability Hangover as a Survivor
Are you dealing with vulnerability hangover? Discover four ways to care for yourself after sharing your survival story.
How This Fashion Model Is Defying Industry Norms & Championing Self-Acceptance
New York-based fashion model and Savage X Fenty Beauty Ambassador Carlene A. John shares her story of embracing vitiligo and how self-acceptance contributed to her success.
The Dark Side of My Knees
As I look down at my knees, I'm reminded of the pain and insecurity that have followed me for so long. The dark colour of my knees, a constant reminder of the abuse I suffered as a child, has become a symbol of my deepest insecurities.
Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun: How I learned to Own My Scars
Having a hard time embracing your flaws? Bibi Babatunde-Ikotun shares encouragement to women struggling to embrace physical imperfections.
Re-Defining Beauty as A Model with Albinism
Living with albinism? Nancy Brittney discusses albinism in the beauty industry and how she found love and learned to embrace her unique beauty.
Endometriosis Foundation of Kenya Founder Shares How Her Endo Journey Sparked National & Global Activism
Founder of the Endometriosis Foundation of Kenya Elsie Wandera shares how endometriosis pain threatened to cripple her life.
A Mother’s Plea to Find Her Missing Daughter
Imagine going through an entire day not knowing what happened to your only child. This is the nightmare that Letty Mpofu is living through.
How This Survivor Used ‘Healing Through Language’ As a Form of Therapy
Tracy Masocha, a published author and survivor of sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, is advocating writing as a form of therapy towards healing.
Story Update: A Dream Come True for Flavour Joy
Do you remember Queen Joy Katwesige? The remarkable multi-award-winning advocate with a mission to see a generation free of stigma and gender-based violence. Well, we have an exciting update for you. We first introduced Queen Joy, also known as Favour Joy, to you back in January. At the time, she was living in the orphanage where she had grown up with about 40 other children. H
Angela Mutie: "How God Restored My Heart"
Today, Angela’s story has come full circle. Six years after choosing herself and her son, she is now happily married to a wonderful man who loves her deeply. The couple married in August 2024. I asked Angela to share their beautiful love story.
Young Woman Born with HIV Empowers Other HIV+ Women: “Be Vibrant and Never be Afraid to Speak Up”
From childhood, l was on medication that l was required to take daily. The relatives l lived with would always emphasize that l should take the medication diligently.
With Love from a Fellow Endo-Warrior
I thought severe cramps before, during, and after ovulation were normal. So, I dismissed them as such. A week before my periods, I would experience excessive back pain, throwing up, and a running tummy all at the same time. I would have flu symptoms and just think my immune system was down. Because these symptoms affected my whole body, I didn't know that it was endometriosis.
Endo-Warrior ‘Barbs the Emotional Alchemist’ Speaks on Social Stigma & Learning to Be Kind to Herself
I think my hysterectomy was one of the final stages because the endometriosis had spread to other parts of my body. In 2010, half of my bladder was cut off. The disease also spread to my appendix, and I had an appendicectomy in 2012. It also spread to my spinal cord. So, mine progressed to other organs.
Two Relationships, Two Different Types of Grief: Rebuilding My Life After Heartbreak
A woman shares how she processed grief and rebuilt her life after heartbreak.
My Endo Journey: I Am Not My Diagnosis
The month of March is endometriosis awareness Month. Endometriosis is a medical condition where tissue similar to that which normally lines the uterus, grows on other parts of the body. It’s a chronic illness that affects 1 in 10 women globally. I am among the women living with Endometriosis.
How I Found the Courage to Leave a Polygamous Marriage and Pursue My Dreams
At the age of 15, Mary became the fourth wife to a man three times her age. It later became evident that this was not the life for her. She wanted more out of life and dreamed of going back to school. Today, she stands on the other side of that dream having achieved an impressive 20 points in her Advanced Level exams last year. She desires to pursue a degree in law. This is her
Forgiving an Unspeakable Offence
Jane Awour never imagined that the end of her marriage would be marked by a vicious acid attack that would require 28 reconstructive surgeries.
How Trusting God’s Leading Led Me To Purpose & A Thriving Ministry
If there is one thing I know it's that each time God gives us an assignment, He will always provide for it.
My Journey to Motherhood As an HIV+ Woman
Every HIV-positive woman wants to bear an HIV-negative child, and because of improved science, it is indeed possible to have an HIV-negative child as long as your viral load is undetectable.
In-depth Story: Picking Up the Pieces After an Abusive Marriage
We often go to great lengths to preserve the image of a happy home because of the social standing marriage affords us. We know that married women are viewed as having greater “value” and garner more respect than women who are single, widowed, or divorced, and we want that. But sometimes we are left with no choice.
Broken But Beautiful: The Forgiveness Series - Understand that Life is Unfair, but be Fair Anyway
Life has a way of dealing us cards that seem profoundly unfair. For some of us, those cards include the heavy burden of childhood sexual trauma, an experience that leaves scars that run deep. But did you know that in the face of life's unfairness, we have a choice—to let our wounds define us or to rise above them?
Rumbidzai Mutendera: How I Found Restoration & Purpose After Divorce
Finding out that my husband had another woman when l was pregnant with our second child really broke me. All l wanted was a successful marriage, and so l prayed for God's intervention in the hopes that my husband would relent and come back to me. But that was not the case. Clearly, God had other plans to restore me to the person l was born to be.
Losing My Love 30 Days Before Our Wedding
Memory Matsvimbo is a woman who has risen from grief and became someone she never thought she could be. This is her story:
Caroline Kagia Discusses Family Triggers & Challenges Women Face Maintaining Sobriety
Caroline Kagia isn’t new around here. And if you’ve been hanging with us for a while, you’ll recognize her name. We first featured her story on The Weight She Carries backin 2019. And what a remarkable story she has – one that delves deep into the hidden realities of addiction and reveals just how tight its grip can be.
Finding My Voice: Overcoming Trauma and Depression
For a period in her life, Roselyne Wandaki lived with two family members whom we will call Aunt Tina and Uncle Adam for the purposes of this story. The couple had grown children who were out of the home.
Dr. Annia Gombakomba on Overcoming Fear & Success in Business
Dr. Annia Gombakomba is a lawyer who studied law at University of Bedfordshire and practises in the area of Immigration and family law. She is the legal, social and public adviser to many clergy including bishops and pastors, and is the legal adviser for The Women & Family Resource Centre, where she provides legal help and life coaching to women who are victims of domestic viol
Life, Ministry & My Miraculous Journey to Motherhood
Concillia Mudzi is a woman who loves God and whose mission is to make a difference in the lives of people she meets. She is driven by the desire to showcase the love of God to all the people that come her way. We caught up with Concillia to find out more about her.
From Newlywed to Widow: How Sharing my Story Led to Healing and Purpose
The ink had barely dried on their marriage certificate when her life was thrust into an abyss of confusion, loss and despair. Many whom she sought comfort from turned their backs and wanted nothing to do with her. It took five years to garner the courage to share her story. Once she did, the weight slowly began to lift.
Bouncing Back Stronger Than Ever After an Abusive Marriage
To onlookers, Vivian Moyana (née Munjanja) embodied success. She was pursuing her MBA, climbing the corporate ladder and had a beautiful family. What they couldn't have imagined was the private battle raging within the four walls of her home. After enduring years of abuse in a toxic marriage, she mustered the strength to leave. This is her story:
Award-winning Coach Jessie Mhaka Opens up About Overcoming Clinical Depression, Anxiety & Chronic Stress
Jessie’s journey is one of compounded strength. She recently shared with The Weight She Carries how she has survived clinical depression, an anxiety disorder and chronic stress.
Starting Over: How I Walked Away From Abuse into an Unknown Future
Broken-hearted, bitter and lost, I walked into an unknown future - a future which was uncertain. I had let marriage become a huge part of my identity, and I was not sure what would be next, but I walked away anyway.
TWSC Story Update: Constance Garawaziva - "Opportunity Met me at my Lowest"
We first got to know Constance Garawaziva back in 2020 when she shared her story of healing from heartbreak and tragedy. If you missed her story, you'll want to read it first here. Constance is back with us today to give us an update on some new developments in her life.
Determined to Succeed: How I Rose From Tragedy to Triumph
Irene Kendi is an outstanding woman who has faced many challenges but rose above them all. Her childhood was marred by the rejection of her father and the poverty that ensued. There would be tougher days ahead, but Irene refused to let her circumstances dictate her destiny.
A Second Chance at Life – Pt 2: Finding Love as an HIV+ Woman
A couple of weeks ago, Precious Mwewa Kaniki shared her story of contracting HIV at age 14 and struggling to adhere to treatment until a medical crisis jolted her into action.
A Second Chance at Life
I tested positive when I was just 14 years old. Honestly, it came as a huge shock to me, and I quickly went into denial mode, which caused me to withdraw from all my family and friends. I was very lonely. There was no one to talk to.
In-depth Story: Lucky Unganqotshwa Mthembu - Rebuilding my Life After an Abusive Relationship
I was engaged to a person who was very abusive emotionally, physically and financially. At the onset of the relationship, he was extremely loving, attentive and the future seemed bright for us.
My Journey from Unplanned Pregnancy to University Graduate, Author & Founder of Help One Helper
Ntombizodwa is a former domestic worker, university graduate and author of the book Brightness of Diamonds through Soil. She is also the founder and director of the non-profit organization Help One Helper, and above all, a mother to a 17-year-old daughter.
Becoming Farie Jules: How I Overcame Child Marriage, Depression & Divorce
Farai Juliet Magada, known as Farie Jules, is a daughter, sister, mother, survivor, fighter, believer, emancipated woman, creative, philanthropist and lover of beautiful things. This is her story in her own words.
In-depth Story: Surviving a 769-km Journey on Foot to Safety
Anita Grace is a South Sudanese woman with incredible wisdom and a powerful story. Seeing the woman she is today, it’s hard to imagine the horrors she has lived through.
Redefining my Future After Heartbreak, Trauma & Depression
Sharon Mashaba is a 25-year-old brave, resilient and smart young woman whose goal is to reach greater heights. She is from a small village called Shigamani in Limpopo and as a survivor of sexual trauma and depression, is determined to never allow her past experiences stand in the way of her dreams.
Dr. Mejury Chipato on Overcoming Rejection & Rising from an Impoverished Community
Mejury Chipato has many roles. She is a medical doctor, microbiologist, pastor, entrepreneur, businesswoman, philanthropist, leader, mentor, author and life and business coach. She has also won multi-awards, including the Zimbabwe Achievers Awards and has been honoured by The International Internship University (India) as one of the Most Inspiring Woman of The Earth awardees an
Brenda Ndlovu: From Teen Mom to Accomplished Radio Producer & MC
Brenda Ndlovu, also known as MaBrrr because of her positive and energetic vibes on radio, is a warm-hearted, bubbly, self-driven woman who desires to see other women unlock their potential and exceed limitations. Brenda was born and raised in Bulawayo, the second-largest city in Zimbabwe.
Reclaiming My Health After Debilitating Pain & Loss
From the time she was 13 years old, Jemimah Nzisa suffered debilitating pain, excessive vomiting and heavy bleeding each month during her menstrual period. In fact, she often had to seek treatment from a hospital nearby just to manage the pain and address her dehydration. It wasn’t until years later that she was diagnosed with fibroids and sadly lost a pregnancy to it.
Why This Former Single Mom Tells Others to Never, Ever Give up on Love
Cecy K is a lively YouTuber from Namibia who shares her life experiences and insight on a variety of topics ranging from life in Namibia to single parenting. In addition to meaningful discussions about life and relationships, her YouTube channel is peppered with light-hearted videos of her doing the latest TikTok challenges or dancing with her kids. It’s evident that this fun-l
In-depth Story: Finding My Way Back to God After Vowing Never to Pray Again
A series of tragedies led to her bold proclamation, ‘I will never again pray to this God.’ The pain was too severe for words. She was saved, so why was her life so difficult?
"I Started High School at 20; Now I have a PhD in Commercial Law"
They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. (Psalm 126:5) That's the scripture I thought of when I listened to Dr Julieth's story. My eyes filled with tears as she narrated to The Weight She Carries how her journey towards her doctorate has been.
Undeterred: Zimbabwean Musician Chipo Muchegwa
As l was lazily scrolled through Facebook one day, l came across a video and was so moved by this young lady's voice that l knew I had to speak to her. Chipo Muchegwa was born without arms and has short limbs, but this has not deterred her from making her mark in the music industry.
My Mental Health Journey as a Caregiver
As a journalist and radio personality, it's much easier for me to take a recorder or pen and interview a source. It's much simpler to hear someone's story and imagine being in their shoes. One of the hardest things I have had to do is write about myself. It’s just difficult to admit you have a problem and you need a solution for it.
My Journey with HIV & Surviving Cervical Cancer
My name is Precious Shongwe. I am from Eswatini, a woman openly living with HIV and a mother of two adorable kids: a boy aged 16 and a girl aged 9. I am also an activist and a cervical cancer survivor.
Dr. Mary Wanjiku Gichuhi: From Domestic Abuse Survivor and Refugee to Serial Best Selling Author, Celebrated Speaker & PhD Holder
Almost five years ago, Mary Wanjiku Gichuhi fled Kenya for safety in the Netherlands. She fled to save her life and that of her unborn child after being stuck in a dysfunctional, toxic and abusive relationship for years. She only managed to leave with her passport and a spare cloth in a small bag. She was pregnant at the time.
A Woman's Candid Battle with Depression, Anxiety & PTSD
Sasha Lee was knocked down but got up. She decided to not be bitter but to be brave, keep fighting and see the good. She didn’t let the hard stuff win. Sasha comes back to share her most candid experiences with depression and anxiety
How Heartbreak, Shame & Rejection Birthed a Powerful Ministry
Today, Pastor Sandra Baingana is in full-time ministry, a mother of six and married to an amazing man, Mr. Innocent Baingana, whom she co-owns an engineering firm with. Her ministry, Road to Redemption Ministries, has catapulted to success within just two years of its existence and drawn nearly 50,000 followers from around the world on Facebook alone, and her church services ar
Loyiso Lindani on How HIV Saved her Life
We have all encountered heroes at some point in our lives: people who exude power, confidence and truth. Loyiso Lindani is one such hero to not only me but to many of those who have met her. Loyiso has managed to turn a challenging situation into a powerful story of survival, self-realisation and self-acceptance. She shared with The Weight She Carries how HIV saved her life.
A Love Story: Finding Love After Trauma & Addiction
Twenty-three years ago, Regina Chari’s life was very different from the one she enjoys today with her husband, Nyasha, and their two daughters.
HIV Activist Susan Wairimu Metta on Living with HIV and Dating: “I am not Lowering my Standards”
Many single people will tell you that dating in today’s world is ridiculously frustrating. For people living with HIV, the struggle of dating is amplified…to the 10th power. But don’t tell Susan Wairimu Metta to forget about love or that she should lower her standards just because she is HIV positive. The 40-year-old HIV activist is determined to live life to the fullest, and t
A Woman's Story of Finding True Love After Heartbreak
A pearl is a rare, valuable treasure that needs no polishing or cutting by man. Pearl Spilile Muguti, is a woman who has lived up to her name. She is a rare treasure and a strong lady who has gone through hardships in life that were meant to break her, but today she celebrates her strength and resilience. She is a 36-year-old mother of two, lives in South Africa and is the foun
TWSC Submission: Starting Over as a Single Mother of 5
I am a mother of five. I was married very young and had my firstborn a few days before my 18th birthday.
Breast Cancer Survivor Lucky Ndanu: “My Mastectomy was a New Beginning for me”
Lucky Ndanu was in her final year of college when she felt a lump in her right breast. Then came the diagnosis: breast cancer. She was only 22 and life was just beginning. The best course of treatment involved a mastectomy, her doctor advised. That was a hard pill to swallow. How would she look afterwards, she wondered? Eventually, she chose to look at the mastectomy as a new b
Readers' Choice: The 5 Most-read TWSC Stories of 2021
We’re just hours away from 2022, and we cannot wait to ring in the new year! We've got big plans for TWSC in the new year, and continuing to bring you content showcasing extraordinary women who have decided to rewrite their stories with God's help is definitely our goal.
TWSC Submission: Rebuilding After Tragedy -A New Lease on Life
It was 2 December 2017, a normal day when we all woke up and prepared for our daily work. As usual, we gathered as a team and praised God through songs and prayed for journey mercies. This working day involved shifting from one location of work to another, so our journey of more than 200 kilometres began.
GBV Survivor & KRT Founder: Speaking Out Changed my Life
My name is Tatenda Nyakutya. I am a lady who is in her early 30s born in a family of five: two girls and three boys. I’m a mother to many children, though I have one biological daughter and several adopted children. I come from a strong Christian background because my parents are pastors, and that is where I draw my philanthropic nature from.
Re-loving My Body After Alcoholism
Life is beautiful, life is exciting. With each new day comes new possibilities, new expectations and new beginnings.
How this Single Mom Overcame Child Marriage, an Abusive Relationship and Tragic Loss
When life gives you lemons, you are expected to make lemonade, but uuuum....it is not as easy as that! My name is Chamu Sue Ellen Chaunoita. I am 35 years old and a single mother of two beautiful girls. Today, I am a purchasing clerk at a tobacco company in Harare, Zimbabwe, a diploma graduate in office administration and a certified nurse aide with the Zimbabwe Red Cross Socie
Smiling Through Pain: Marvelous Fungurani’s Journey with Fibroids
Many women have uterine fibroids at some point during their lifetime. But you may not know you have them because they often do not present symptoms. Some women, though, have had to deal with more severe symptoms just like Marvelous Fungurani, who has lived with such symptoms for some years now.
Catching Up With Princess Siziba
A couple of years ago we interviewed an author, speaker and entrepreneur named Princess Siziba who had overcome many challenges as a teen mom and was determined to be successful. Well, since then, Princess has made in greater strides and now owns a publishing company. We decided to reach out to her and find out all about her new venture!
Forgiving The Father Who Violated Me
My name Zizo Izabelo zam Apleni, which means “These are my shares”, given to me by my maternal grandmother. My mum had me when she was in university, but my father denied the pregnancy, and so I became my maternal grandparents’ child. It is a very loving family: secure, warm and loving. At Christmas, everyone gathers at home for a big celebration where we share our dreams and a
My Divorce Birthed my Business
My name is Rumbidzai Patience Magaya, a mother of three turning 35 years [old] in November. I went through divorce early 2019, and I was a housewife then. When I was married, I discovered that my ex-husband was living a double life. When I say double life, I mean he had secretly married another lady without my knowledge. Some relatives knew about it, but I was in darkness.
Fighting for Justice: A Family at Odds
My parents would host parties at home in a bid to entertain guests and their workmates. I was only 11, and on this particular day, a close friend to my father decided it was too late to go back home after the party, so he was accommodated for the evening. Little did we know he had a plan that would change everyone’s life.
Style Cabin Zimbabwe Founder Shares Her Story of Trauma, Tenacity and Triumph
Life has a way of taking away from us; but it has the capacity to give, particularly if we stay true to our dreams and aspire for the best. Sharon James, now the managing director and founder of Style Cabin Zimbabwe, a home decor and furniture company that specializes in exclusive lounge suites, modern sleigh beds, headboards, arm chairs and more, was not born with a silver spo
Determined: Dr. Chipo Mutambo Nyathi Shares How Education Liberated and Empowered Her
My name is Chipo Mutambo Nyathi. I am a projects director at Gezubuso Projects in South Africa and completed my PhD at the University of KwaZulu-Natal in public health and completed it earlier this year. But looking back at my life, college and high school was a struggle for my mom because I went to a school which was way beyond her means.
TWSC Submission: My Pain Turned Into Power
My name is Dzidzai Gugulethu Mhazo, a 30-year-old single mother. I got pregnant when I was in high school doing Upper Six. I had to sit for my examinations pregnant, and it was not easy. I had to deal with all the morning sickness and pregnancy symptoms so that no one could suspect me at school. I managed to complete all my examinations, and I passed with nine points.
Zimbabwe OCD Trust Founder Shares Her Brave Battle Against Mental Illness
Angelica Chiketa Mkorongo is a biologist, now-turned mental health advocate and peer specialist. She is also a mother and wife. She spoke to The Weight She Carries about her journey living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
In-depth Story: Humanitarian & Widow’s Rights Advocate Dianah Kamande on the Night her Husband Tried to Kill Her
At 30, Dianah Kamande was in a hospital fighting for her life with massive head injuries sustained during a domestic altercation. She had just lost her husband to suicide. He had tried to kill her before stabbing himself in the abdomen. There was no time to process the events that had occurred that evening; she had two young daughters to raise and a long road ahead to clear her
How Charlene Motshegwe Fought Cancer, Debilitating Pain as a Teen
Charlene Nadine Motshegwe is a 24-year-old Motswana woman who is currently studying events management at Limkokwing University in Botswana and is set to finish next year. She told The Weight She Carries that her background was a fair one. She had a normal childhood expect for having to deal with her parents losing their jobs, which resulted in family and friends helping with fo
Abandoned in a Box: How Embracing Her Truth Opened Doors for Miss South Africa 2021 Hopeful Fikile Cele
This saying coined by 22-year-old Fikile Cele is more than a metaphor, it’s deeply personal; and, in many ways, describes how she managed to land on both feet despite a bleak beginning and years of identity crisis and being picked on by imperious peers.
TWSC Submission: My Greatest Battle Outside the Courtroom – Surviving Financial Abuse from my Child’s Father
I'm a mother of one and a lawyer. Since high school, I have been passionate about the law and advocating for people. I enjoy it now, every day. My story is one of mental and financial abuse. Even though I am a shark in the courtroom, I was manipulated by a man I once loved and almost lost my dream. My experience is proof that abuse can happen to anyone. This is my story.
TBT: Gems from Priscillah Kabura's Story - The Cost of Better
In late 2019 I had the privilege of interviewing a woman named Priscillah Kabura. I remember it was morning for me and I sat in the car as I dialed her number. She was is Italy. For the next hour, I listened as she took me through the heartbreak she experienced that turned her into a single mother in Kenya, the financial crisis she lived through and how she ultimately chose bet
A Single Mother's Determination to Get Back Onto Her Feet After Loss
Samantha Mpofu (Sammy) grew up as the oldest of four children. Her parents divorced when she was young but she still has fond memories of her childhood.
TWSC Submission: Pregnant and Alone - How I Found Love After Being Rejected by my Family & Child's Father
My name is Portia* and I am 38 years old. I come from Gokwe, Zimbabwe. Growing up, I have faced quite a number of challenges, one of which was falling pregnant at a young age of 22 out of wedlock. I was childish at the time because when I was around five months pregnant, my aunt, who I was staying with at the time, is the one who noticed that I was pregnant even though I had tr
I Refused to Let HIV or Cancer Keep me From Living my Best Life
Andrea de Lange found out that she was HIV positive when she was just 23 years old and in college. Today at 57, she has found love and is a cancer survivor. This is her story…Andrea is a Jewish American who was raised in California. Life is good right now, but that wasn’t always the case.
A Single Mother's Experience Raising Two Autistic Children
The following story is about 41-year-old Samira Njoki from Kenya. Samira is mother to two autistic boys and has been single-handedly taking care of them for five years after her husband turned his back on them.
A Woman's Continual Journey to Wholeness After Recurrent Losses
Motherhood is a dream for many; the thought of holding a baby in one’s arms brings joy. The pain of losing a baby is, however, unfathomable. The loss, unforgettable. The following story is about how life changed for Precious Taah – from being congratulated and receiving pregnancy advice to being consoled after losing her first child through miscarriage. That was the beginning o
TWSC Submission: When My Childhood Ended
Merida Ohame was forced to undergo female genital mutilation (FGM), and then, soon after, forced to marry a total stranger. Today, at 62, she has vowed it fight for the rights of women and the girl child. She believes that FGM has damaging effects on girls and lowers a women self-esteem, and has worked to help eradicate this practice for over 30 years. This is her story.
Beatrice Malika: Why I Left a Well-Paying Job to Take Care of Slum and Street Children
Beatrice Malika runs a school called the Glory Christian Education Centre and also founded Glory Christian Rescue Home for sexually abused children. A mother of two children aged 17 and 12, Beatrice realized her love for children as a child herself. She often gave things to other children at random. This is her story in her own words.
Meet Njeri wa Migwi: A Gender-Based Violence Survivor and Activist
Njeri wa Migwi is a wife, mother of five and the founder/CEO of Usikimye Organization. She was still a minor when she got married and that led to over a decade of domestic abuse. Materially, she wanted for nothing, but emotionally, she was broken. Today, her pain has fueled her activism, and she is determined to never let another woman go through what she experienced on her wat
Getting to Know Clare Ongati: Entrepreneur, Passionate Youth Leader and Co-Founder of Young Women Connect
Clare Ongati is a 28-year-old mother who wears multiple hats. She is an entrepreneur, a Youth Leadership alumni and co-founder of Young Women Leaders Connect. Many things about Clare stand out, but her drive and passion are undeniable. Despite a horrific encounter that changed the trajectory of her life, Clare continues to inspire others to heal from their pain and became who t
In Her Shoes: Braving Through Bipolar Disorder
I have bipolar II and these are all examples of a type of psychosis I have experienced. Delusions and hallucinations are forms of psychosis that people with bipolar disorder may suffer from during full-blown manic episodes.
TWSC Submission: I was Lured into a Marriage Under False Pretense
My relationship with my ex-husband was my second relationship. I dated him for four years with no red flag until I got pregnant. He had a wife in the rural areas and his family was very secretive about it. When I eloped to his house, we had to have a family meeting with family members. The meeting took three hours to start, but everyone was around. People were very hesitant to
TWSC Series: Broken but Beautiful - Choose to be a Woman
For a long time, I never had any interest in celebrating International Women’s Day. It made no sense to me. I saw nothing worthy of celebration in me. This day brought more blues than pink moments to me. It reminded me of my inadequacy, my weaknesses, and how much I detest being a woman.
Kiseki Owner Mio Yamada Talks Entrepreneurship, Living in Rwanda & Decision to Only Hire Single Mums in Restaurant
When COVID-19 hit, Mio Yamada ignored an advisory by the Japanese Embassy to leave Rwanda and return to Japan. She had fallen in love with Africa as student in university when she cycled 5,000 km from Kenya to South Africa. Years later, she relocated to Rwanda with her family, opened up a restaurant, and decided that she would hire single mothers as her staff. Forced to shut do
Embracing my Journey as an Endo Warrior
I have struggled with excruciating menstrual periods since I was a teenager. It’s the kind of pain that pain medications don’t even begin to soothe. I have also spent the last eight years consulting numerous doctors because of my unexplained infertility. I did not realize that the two were related and that so many women are affected like me.
Author Amanda Tayte-Tait Opens up About Childhood Abuse & Inspiration Behind Recent Book
Eventually, my family found out through my boyfriend, who I had confided in. Everything went crazy at that point. A blame game went on between my father and mother. My mother even had to travel to South Africa to confront the person. The police got involved. I was barraged with questions, are you sure there was penetration? being a pretty consistent one. I did not know what the
Award-winning Model Ayanda Candice Sibanda: How I Rose Above Bullying & Discrimination Due to Albinism
This is a mantra that Ayanda Candice Sibanda, a phenomenal young woman, has lived by through every ordeal she has faced. She has faced bullying and discrimination but has managed to come out on top. Ayanda spoke to The Weight She Carries about how life has been for this award-winning model.
From Motherless to Mother to 68 Homeless Children in Kenya
Esther Kanyutu, a mother of three kids, knew that God had a purpose for her in life. Today, she is a mother of 68 young girls and boys who were left homeless after the 2007 Kenya post-election violence. It all began when a police vehicle dropped those vulnerable kids in front of her house. She prayed to God to give her the strength to provide for and protect them. She knelt dow
How I Started Taking Care of Other People as a Calling
My name is Eunice Zvitiki, a mother of one handsome boy. I always had the zeal for a big family, not knowing God had His plan for a big family for me. I have, at the moment, five children that I support whilst they are at their homes. I have never been this fulfilled, and I still pray for more.
Undeterred: Marvelous Fungurani's Inspiring Journey to Earning Her University Degrees
Marvelous Fungurani walked The Weight She Carries through how mercy rewrote her life and how she herself had to make painful sacrifices to reach her goals of attaining an education. She narrated how the journey has been so far.
How Ropafadzo Banhwa Rewrote Her Story and Become a Marathon Runner
Ropafadzo Banhwa, due to a tragic event, found comfort in food. Although she has a fitness journey that spans from 2013 up to now, she shared with The Weight She Carries how her journey has been to this point.
Finding Herself After Abuse, Teen Pregnancies and a Failed Marriage: How Patience Tarumbwa Managed to Rise Again
Patience Tarumbwa is a Zimbabwean woman who lives in Bulawayo, the second-largest city in Zimbabwe. She has four children: two boys and two girls.
Beauty for Ashes: How Terry Gobanga Found Healing and Love Again After Tragedy
On the night before her wedding, Terry realized that she had some clothes her fiancé Harrison “Harry” Olwande was supposed to wear for their wedding. Early in the morning of her wedding day, she took them to her friend, so she had to walk to a bus stop.
Desiree-Anne Martin Shares Her Battle and Recovery from Drugs and Alcohol
Desiree Ann Martin has conquered substance abuse, alcoholism and a whole lot more and lived to tell the story. She recently opened up to The Weight She Carries about how she chose life in the face of a slow but certain death. This is her story in her own words.
Readers' Choice: The Two Most-Read Stories of 2020
On this last day of 2020, I’m taking the time to reflect on the lessons and growth I’ve experienced this year. The last few years have been the most trying of my life and I was intentional this year about healing from the pain. My goal next year is to become transparent about what I have been through and invite you into my healing journey.
This Woman's Story is a Reminder that You are Never 'Too Damaged' to be Loved
One of our most-read stories of 2020 was that of Hanna Stone - woman who lost her father at the age of eight and was taking in by an uncle whose wife was cruel to young Hanna.
How This Woman Learned to Embrace her Changing Appearance
Lebbeii Sibonokuhle Maseko noticed some discolouration on her skin in 2014 but didn't think much of it. The single mother of three later learned she had vitiligo, a condition in which the pigment cells of the skin, melanocytes, are destroyed in certain areas.
TWSC Submission: The Day I Lost My Baby and My Uterus
Her childhood was a complicated one. Raised in a polygamous family, Rosa’s father worked in the city while her biological mother lived in the village. Rosa lived in the city with her father and stepmother because she had an eye problem that required frequent treatment at a hospital.
Learning to Speak Again: How This Woman's Story Reminds us that Anything is Possible
I met Shalena almost 3 years ago at a women's conference called The Tell Your Story Conference by Chandi Rae in Dayton, Ohio. There was something about her that seemed so genuine and so hungry for her purpose. As we engaged in conversation, Shalena began to talk about how she had gotten into the conference. After just a few minutes of speaking with her, I knew I had to intervie
Finding Love as a Single Mom of 5 After an Abusive Marriage
Caroline Gulubani grew up in Bulawayo and has two younger siblings who live in Victoria Falls. They later relocated to the resort town of Victoria Falls, which is where she attended school. It was after completing secondary school that she met her first husband. She narrated to The Weight She Carries what transpired in her first marriage. This is her story:
TWSC Submission: Growing up Under the Shame of a False Narrative
Imagine having to live twenty years of your life believing that you have a chronic illness, only for you to find out the truth at a clinic. The following story is about 31-year-old Sarah* from Uganda who grew up thinking she was HIV-positive because her family jumped to conclusions. Sarah faced a lot of discrimination and stigma from family members and almost lost her self-este
Meet the Phenomenal Woman Behind Fempreneurs Magazine & LASACCO - Pearl Mbazima
Pearl Mbazima is a 40-year-old mother of three who lives in Mazowe, Zimbabwe. She is an accountant/auditor by profession. She studied for her Bachelor of Accounting Science with UNISA and did her Articles of Clerkship with Ernst & Young straight after her A Levels at Chisipite Senior School.
How This Woman's Story Reminds us it's Never Too Late to Tell Your Story
Today I am reminded of a woman I interviewed earlier this year named Claire Wambui. Her voice was bubbly and her laugh infectious. As she began to tell me about who is today, she sounded very polished and had a great understanding of who she is and what she brings to the table professionally.
TWSC Submission: A Forced Marriage Didn't Stop me from Becoming who I Wanted to be
My name is Alice Tagwira. I was raised in Masvingo, Zimbabwe. I hold a higher diploma in business administration and I’m still pursuing my education. I am a business owner, a social entrepreneur, philanthropist and feminist. My organization She Glows was officially registered in 2020.
Playwright Thembi Moyo Shares How She Emerged Stronger After Her Greatest Pain
Thembi Moyo, an internationally acclaimed playwright, shared with The Weight She Carries how she managed to let the pain of her loss shape her into the woman she has now become. She walked us through her journey.
TWSC Submission: How I Picked Myself up After Tragedy and Heartache
Constance Gwarawaziva, a 35-year-old single mother of two beautiful children, has had the odds against her time and time again. But with tears in her eyes and determination in her heart, she has overcome by investing in herself under very difficult circumstances. She talked to The Weight She Carries and walked us through her journey so far
Phillipa Sibanda Mandisodza Discusses Giving Up Six-figure Income to Serve Her Home Country
Phillipa Sibanda Mandisodza is a health professional and social impact entrepreneur who gave up her six-figure income in California to help rebuild the healthcare system in her home country Zimbabwe. She spent the past 15 years working in the healthcare field as a respiratory care practitioner and led healthcare projects such as clinic start-ups, robotics in intensive care sett
How This Woman Transformed Her Life and Found Her Purpose After Divorce
When her marriage fell apart seven years ago, Gloria F. Chivaenzi found herself broken and devastated. But in the midst of her pain, she chose to care for her body and value herself more. Today, she is on a mission to remind women, particularly single mothers, that they are precious and valuable. This is her story in her own words:
From Teen Mom to Award-Nominated Author & Businesswoman
Nonduduzo Ncube is a 30-year-old author who was born in Beitbridge, a border town in the province of Matabeleland South, Zimbabwe. However, she was raised in Bulawayo, the second-largest city. She went to Mpopoma High School and was raised by very strict parents.
How Breast Cancer Survivor Lucky Ndanu Learned to Love Her Body After Losing Her Breast
She was in her final year of college when she felt a lump in her right breast. Then came the diagnosis: breast cancer. She was just 22. It didn’t seem real; it couldn’t be. Life was just beginning, and like her peers, she had plans to take the world by storm. What started out as a small lump would drastically alter her body but also introduce her to a new woman she has grown to
How Tyra Chikocho "Madam Boss" Built an International Brand Despite the Odds Being Stacked Against Her
Tyra Chikocho, well known as Madam Boss, is a multitalented woman, wife and mother. She grew up between rural areas and Harare, Zimbabwe's capital city.“ Childhood was painful and tough..my mum passed on when I was in Grade 6," Tyra told The Weight She Carries." I was left brokenhearted as my mother had been sick for some time but requested to be discharged so she [could spend]
TWSC Submission: Healing from devastating pregnancy loss
On the 18th of February 2019, I told the midwife that there was no movement in my womb. She asked me to rush to the hospital. When I arrived, I was asked to take an ultra-scan. It was then that it was confirmed that the baby was no longer alive. I was admitted immediately and induced. I was 34 weeks pregnant.
How Sarah Takawira Rebuilt Her Life After Domestic Abuse
Sarah Takawira is a twin born in a family of six. Although she hails from Chipinge, a small town in Zimbabwe, she now resides in Harare, the capital city. After failing her O Levels, her father told her that she would not be repeating her studies. Instead, she would have to wait to get married.
Laizah Baera: Choosing my Calling Above Everything Else
Laizah Baera is an energetic and excited young woman, aged 33. She has been a pastor with the Pentecostal Assemblies of Zimbabwe for the past 12 years. She shared her story about her journey in the ministry with The Weight She Carries.
How Noluthando Makalima is Conquering the World of Surfing Despite Being Born with Cerebral Palsy
Noluthando Makalima is a force to be reckoned with. The 32-year-old adaptive surfer recently received the Minister’s Recognition of Excellence Award at the Momentum gsport Awards and holds a silver medal from the World Paralympic Championships, held this year in the United States.
Author Dorine Drake Shares How She Decided Years Ago Not to Let HIV or Cancer Defeat Her
Dorine Drake is living her best life. The 52-year-old mother of one has an energetic and infectious spirit and it is evident that she has an inner joy that no one can strip her of.
How This Kenyan DJ with Cerebral Palsy is Pursing Her Passion by DJ'ing with Her Feet
Winfred was born with cerebral palsy, a group of permanent disorders that affects a person’s ability to move and maintain balance and posture. In Wanjiku’s case, her arm movement was affected.
Award-winning Philanthropist Patience Ndebele-Omijie Shares Inspiring Message on Empowering Others
Patience Ndebele-Omijie is a philanthropist and an award-winning community champion for women, men and youth empowerment. She is founder of Inspire Women Men and Children, a charity organization based in London, United Kingdom and in Zimbabwe, also known as Inspire Women and Children.
Meet Niqita Pieterse: A Woman Making Furniture From Recycled Tyres
True to the word that being HIV positive does not mark an end to one’s life but marks a beginning of a changed way of life, Niqita Pieterse has not let her health condition deter her from pursuing her goals and living a normal life. The young lady, who is based in Durban, South Africa, is living with HIV and has been open about it for over a decade. Pieterse, an HIV activist, r
TWSC Series: From Teen Mom to Serial Entrepreneur – LaChelle Jackson’s Meandering Journey to Success - Part 2
Being an entrepreneur is in LaChelle Jackson’s blood. Her father was self-employed and worked in construction while her mother handled the administrative part of the business. Watching her parents work hard to provide for the family fueled LaChelle to be the serial entrepreneur she is today. She is a hairstylist, candy maker, insurance agent…just to name a few.
Body Oil & a Labour of Love: Learning to Accept and Love my Scars After Trauma
The December ‘08/January ‘09 summer holiday was eventful as always: weddings, Christmas and New Years’ functions, and lots of catching up with family and friends. As was tradition, the holiday culminated in a final night out before I and my fellow diaspora students would part ways, returning home 11 months later to do it all again.
Meet Sandra Owusu-Antwi: Founder & CEO of First African-American Luxury Brand Launched in South Korea
Sandra Owusu-Antwi is a Ghanaian-American woman who is the founder and CEO of Mabel Brempong, the first African-American luxury brand to launch in South Korea.
How Storyteller Fungai Mettler Managed to Overcome all Odds After the Death of her Parents
Fungai Mettler is a 29-year-old Zimbabwean-born inspirational philanthropist and corporate social entrepreneur who was featured in a book project called 50 Young African Women Achievers.
Get to Know the Dynamic Ladies of Nobuntu
Nobuntu is a five-member, all-female acapella/imbube ensemble from the city of Bulawayo in Zimbabwe. Their repertoire is a fusion of traditional Zimbabwean music, mainly rooted in Afro-jazz, gospel and crossover in pure voices with minimalistic percussion, traditional instruments such as mbira and dance movements.
How Nozizwe Mhlanga's Name Has Moulded Her Work as a Philanthropist
Nozizwe Mhlanga, whose first name translates to “mother of nations,” was born into a family of eight children. Her parents instilled in her the importance of helping the less fortunate - a virtue that would lead to great impact in her community. Here is her story:
How Now-Admitted Attorney of the High Court of South Africa Overcame Bullying, Negative Labels and Depression: The Story of Sharon Msiza
“Growing up, I was always a loner," Sharon told The Weight She Carries. "I preferred to be in my bedroom reading a book than to go out and play. But this did not suggest that I did not have any friends nor that I never used to play. One of my brothers made sure I was out and about. 'Don’t you have any friends, Sharon? Please go play and stop being idle,' he would say."
TWSC Submission: Surviving the Loss of Three Stillborn babies and my Uterus
My first pregnancy was when I was 20 years old. I remember I was [doing] my teacher's training school then and in my first year. I carried the pregnancy well, but it was a bit hectic because like any other pregnant woman, I craved some things and hated other things. But eventually everything was fine and labour started normally. My husband was not home but I called him.
Tying the Knot During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Many women dream of having a big wedding and making that grand entrance with friends and relatives ululating and putting zambia cloths (kanga) for you to step on. You will be the centre of attention on that special day and everyone will be dancing and celebrating the day with you.
Founder of IGNITE Youth Organisation Shares How Personal Journey Inspired Her to Create Mentorship for Youth
Tadzi Madzima was raised by a single mother who was multitasking and had a lot on her plate. Tadzi thought opening up to her mother and seeking advice and direction would be like adding more weight to the heavy burden she already had.
How Hanna Stone Went from a Life of Abuse to Finding Love and Happiness
Hanna Stone has lived through devastating abuses that began in childhood. She was born in Harare, Zimbabwe in 1986. She is the eldest of two children and suffered her first loss at age eight.
Grizelda Grootboom Shares her Story of Homelessness, Betrayal and Exploitation
Grizelda Grootboom is at the forefront of the fight against sex trafficking. Whether it is speaking to young women and girls as she signs copies of her book "EXIT!" after a conference or addressing the United Nations General Assembly in New York, her commitment to combating sex trafficking is undeniable. It comes from her own experience as a young woman trapped in sex slavery f
TWSC Submission: Healing from a Painful Childhood
Sometimes the grown ups in our lives mess up big time and create deep-seated wounds that take years to heal from. Phoebe experienced a series of events that marred her childhood and ultimately led to separation from her loved ones and being forced into child labour. This is her story in her own words:
Losing Baby Angela
Jenna and Daniel are a lovely couple from the Philippines. They have been married for 12 years and had been dating for four years prior to that. They were blessed with three sons: James (12), Zachary (3), and Ronron (1).
How She Turned Her Story of Pain into Helping Women who Have Suffered Baby Loss
I got married at 21 years of age and immediately got pregnant. Throughout my pregnancy, I never had any problems. I went to every appointment with my doctor and did all scans and tests. The day my labour started, I packed my bags and went to my local hospital. When I got there, all checks were done and everything was normal including the baby's heartbeat.
How Righteous Chawane Began to Heal After the End of Her 5-Month Marriage
Thirty-three-year-old Righteous Chawane grew up in Bushbuckridge, Mpumalanga, South Africa and knew as a child that she was destined to serve. The first of five children born to Dr. Ray and Pastor Precious Chawane, the desire to serve didn’t fall far from the tree.
Loss, Heartbreak and the Death of Loved Ones: Hazvineyi Dumba's Story of Healing and Managing Adversities
Norest Hazvineyi Dumba grew up in the high-density suburbs of Glen View 1 in Harare. Her family valued love, peace, happiness and loyalty. Her father was a truck driver and her mother a businesswoman.
TWSC Series: From Teen Mom to Serial Entrepreneur – LaChelle Jackson’s Meandering Journey to Success – Part 1
Being an entrepreneur is in LaChelle Jackson’s blood. Her father was self-employed and worked in construction while her mother handled the administrative part of the business. Watching her parents work hard to provide for the family fueled LaChelle to be the serial entrepreneur she is today. She is a hairstylist, candy maker, insurance agent…just to name a few.
TWSC Submission: Finding Fulfillment in Doing What I Love
My name is Dorah Saziso Ncube Zibengwa. I stay in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe. I am a mother of two and expecting the third child. I am a Ndebele and English news anchor at Zimbabwe Broadcasting Corporation (ZBC). I started working at ZBC in 2016 after I managed to pull through auditions for news presenters. I had always been a fluent reader and always enjoyed reading, and I believe tha
MC, Radio Personality Gogo Beau Discusses Achieving Success Despite the Odds Being Stacked Against Her
I was born through what some people might call incest. My mother was impregnated by her sister’s husband’s brother. She used to visit her sister frequently (in Gutu, Zimbabwe) and that is how she ended up falling in love with her brother-in-law. One thing led to another and my mother ended up falling pregnant and eloped.
Overcoming Heartbreak and Depression: Tariro's Story
Tariro Chasi was born and raised in Zimbabwe in the early 90s and then moved to Namibia to be with her parents back in 2009. She told The Weight She Carries that growing up, she was a very cheerful, loving and ambitious young girl. She was very friendly and sociable, too.
Healing from a Failed Marriage
Sandra* was my college professor in a psychology course back in 2008. She is the mother of two girls and has a master’s degree in psychology in Pamantasan ng Lungsod ng Maynila (Manila). She is very smart, a fashionista and fluent in speaking English, which really amazed us. At the time, I thought that she was a foreigner.
Names and Labels Cannot Define Our Destiny: Tadzei Zhou’s Story
Born with a name that had a negative connotation, Tadzei Njerere grew up with the constant reminder that her father wished she were a boy. She recently talked to The Weight She Carries about growing up in a family and community where being a girl was of little value.
Beating the Odds
Growing up without parents and with a low self-esteem, it is difficult for one to dream of excelling, let alone writing a motivational book. The following story is about Evelyn Moyo, a lady who beat the odds and did not use her background as an excuse for failure.
Former Miss Universe Zimbabwe Langa Lloyd Talks Beauty in Embracing Self-Love
Langa Lloyd began modelling in 1994 at the age of 23 and went on to be a contestant in Miss Universe 20 years go. Like the current Miss Universe, Zozibini Tunzi, Langa was the only contestant with short hair.
Finding the Courage to Finally Speak Out After 25 Years of Silence
Having worked in journalism for the past 13 years and also working for a social media management company, Claire Wambui knows the power of effective communication. The art of gathering information, reconstructing it to suit the intended audience and disseminating it to the masses through the most appropriate vehicle is a skill she has mastered. But when it came to her personal
From Single Mother to Newlywed: How God Gave Me the Courage to Love Again
My love story is interesting. My husband was a moderator in a certain Facebook group called Single and Saved. I had been in that group for one year and had never noticed him, neither had he, until September 2018. I was going through a very difficult season, betrayal from friends and trying to heal both emotionally and physically.
They Say Lightning Never Strikes the Same Place Twice – It Did for Me
It was early Sunday morning when I felt a shooting pain rip through my abdomen. It was June 3, 2018. My day was planned down to the hour. I had done quite a bit of travelling in the weeks prior to this day, so I was glad to finally have the time to catch up on writing stories. It was supposed to be a productive day…
TWSC Submission: Taking the Leap – How I Left my Corporate Job to Rescue Abused Children and Found my Purpose
My name is SiKelly and I am a mother and mentor. I am the firstborn in a family of four and was born and raised in Chuka, Kenya. I went to Chuka Township Primary School, then to Chogoria Girls High School and pursued Management of Information Technology at Multimedia University.
Beauty for Ashes: How Claiming God’s Promises Helped Faith Gor Begin Healing from Sexual Trauma
She was just five years old when her innocence was snatched away one afternoon at the hands of three older boys. By the time she was 12, she had been sexually assaulted twice more – by a stranger and then a spiritual mentor. The trauma took on a life of its own and she became captive to her pain. Then one day, a speaker at a youth conference introduced her to a promise in the B
Regina Chari: Overcoming Addiction and Managing 21 Years of Recovery
Driven by her passion for orphaned children in Zimbabwe, Regina Chari left her home in the USA and relocated to the motherland and now runs Refuge:Zimbabwe with her husband. Regina opened up to The Weight She Carries about her painful childhood and overcoming addiction.
From a Shy, Reserved Girl to a Digital Marketer and Public Speaker: How Loveness Nleya Transitioned Into Her Passion
Loveness Nleya is at the top of her game and living her dream as a digital marketing consultant, speaker and coach. She comes from a very loving Christian family unit and is the firstborn of three children, two girls and one boy. She narrated her story of stepping out of her comfort zone to pursue her passion to The Weight She Carries.
INSPIRATION: Spoken Word Artist Racheal "Voko" Ncube Talks About Her Love of Poetry
Discovering one’s passion and living it is a success in and of itself. Racheal “Voko” Ncube has discovering that pursuing her calling has led to opportunities knocking at her door instead of her seeking them out. Juggling between an education and pursuing one’s God-given talent is very difficult for a lot of people, but not for this young lady.
Restored: Philani Kinyabo's Story of Finding Happiness Again After Bipolar and Depression Diagnosis
Philani Ama Kinyabo is a 33-year-old positive lady who was born and raised in Harare. She has two sisters from her mother’s side and seven from her father’s side. She described her childhood as normal.
TWSC Submission: Surviving the Loss of my Baby
My name is Thobekile Moyo. I grew up in Gwanda but later relocated to Harare where l finished my education at Waddilove School. I am 43 and currently have three kids aged 20,12 and 15 months old. Although it is difficult to talk about, l will share my story just to help someone out there.
How This Single Mother Found the Strength to Rise Above Heartbreak and Start Over
Her path to motherhood was intentional and well calculated. She was in love and starting a new life with the man she believed would be her forever. But forever had other plans. What wasn’t part of the equation was abandonment, a series of heartbreaks and severe abuse.
How I Found My Purpose: My Unplanned Pregnancy, Job Loss and Pursuit of my Passion
Cynthia studied psychology and HR at Monash in South Africa thinking it would land her in a profession that helped people with their emotional issues. That was what she really loved doing. Her parents advised her to do HR as a backup because they didn’t see a real earning future in psychology.
In-depth Story – Reema Sukumaran: Surviving a Tumultuous Childhood and Being Abused by a Pastor
She wanted more than anything to be daddy’s little girl. But the outgoing father who seemed so loving towards other people, was a different man at home. He had a volatile temper and was extremely violent towards her and her brothers. Over the years, she witnessed her mother endure her father’s wrath as the family grew increasingly terrified of him. Surely life would get better
TWSC Submission: How Believing in Myself Made my Dreams Come True
I grew up with a passion for modelling. I remember when I was doing my primary school, I would take part in modelling competitions and would model for people at home. They never took me seriously.
TWSC Submission: How Discrimination Nearly Derailed My Success
I started work as a copy typist at the University of Zimbabwe and was promoted to the post of secretary in the public law department in 1990. I was then further promoted in 1995 to the post of senior secretary at the University of Zimbabwe Centre for Distance Education, Bulawayo region, which later became Zimbabwe Open University in 1999.
How a Relationship with God and the Power of a Vision Transformed Sibo Hlabangana's Life
Growing up in a country where most of the people identify as Christians, l was one of them but l did not have a personal relationship with Him. And so in my twenties, l went through my rebellion against God. At the time, l was unhappy because l felt that l had done everything right and yet He was not delivering like He was supposed to. And that is how l lost my way with God and
Embracing My Beautiful: Taida Chikuni's Road to Modelling and Loving Her Body
Taida Lucy Christine Chikuni describes herself as a daring character and a people person. Raised as the only girl with three older brothers, she learned early on how to carve out her own path in the world. In addition to a career in human resources, Taida is a model.
How Sudden Paralysis Turned Into a Blessing - A Story of Passion and Hope
Looking at her pictures, Maria Dube - a 30-year-old woman from Bulawayo, Zimbabwe - looks like a beauty queen. Nothing about them reveals the type of work she loves doing. She has come a long way since her teenage years which she says nearly broke her.
TWSC Submission: How the Illness and Death of My Husband Changed My Whole World
Widowhood is a painful and traumatizing experience. The death of a spouse causes mental anguish that only time can heal. Haruchemwi Nhengu narrated to The Weight She Carries how she was abandoned before and after the death of her husband by her in-laws. What follows is her account of what happened:
From Young Street Vendor to Business Owner and Humanitarian– How Langelihle Sibanda is Using Her Story to Inspire
At 23, Langelihle Sibanda– whose first name means “a good day” – has lived up to her name and brought many good days to the lives of orphaned and underprivileged people in her community. But life hasn’t always been rosy for her. Her life changed drastically when her parents separated.
An African Woman’s Plight in Search of Greener Pastures: Workplace Bullying and Discrimination Away from Home
Workplace bullying has become rampant over the years. Growing up, it was assumed that bullying occurred only in schools, but it is now evident that even the workplace harbours it. Lisa* shared her story of workplace bullying and how she was able to overcome it.
Mental Health Activist Simone Walsh Shares Her Story on Surviving Workplace Bullying and Severe Depression
With tears streaming down her face she approached the busy intersection. In that moment, sitting behind the wheel, she wanted nothing more than to end it all. It was the culmination of years of being bullied at the least likely of places – her job. She had taken every measure she could think of to stop the abuse, but to no avail, it seemed. This was her chance to end the pain.
How This Woman is Designing Clothes Using Plastic and Newspapers
Lydia Lynn Tembo is my name and I am 22 years old. I work as a maid in Cape Town. My father passed away when I was two months old so I was raised by my mother. It was not easy for her to put food on the table for us but she tried her best.
Working in a Male-Dominated Environment
My name is Wendy Sibanda and I am 30 years old. I hold a bachelor’s degree in geography and environment studies which I did at Midlands State University in Gweru, Zimbabwe. I always wanted a white-collar job where I [would] be wearing heels and formal wear; however, I had a passion for the environment.
Sipho Mazibuko Shares How She Bounced Back From a Nervous Breakdown
Sipho Mazibuko is a bubbly 46-year-old who resides in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe. She is energetic and a typical hustler. Though she has seen dark days, she has survived them all.
How This Single Mom of Two Rewrote Her Story
Child-headed families have become the norm over the years due to various circumstances – mostly very painful ones. Christine* narrated to The Weight She Carries how she experienced such an ordeal first-hand and came out on the other side with her first degree in hand.
From Teenage Mom to Author, Speaker and Entrepreneur: How Princess Siziba Overcame Obstacles and Found Herself
Princess Noma Siziba is a notable woman of resilience who has risen from the rubble to the eminence of being an author, speaker and entrepreneur. Once broken and an outcast, she uses wisdom amassed from her experiences to help change lives with the understanding that her purpose is to serve others. She has a beautiful daughter and her heart’s desire is to see as many people as
How This Woman Achieved Her Dream of Completing Her Education Despite Enormous Challenges
“I was born in a very disadvantageous family that led [to] me being raised and growing up in diverse places and environments," Nandipha told The Weight She Carries. "My mother couldn’t afford to take all us to school so she had to give us (me and my twin sister) [to] other family members who were willing to help. Sometimes I’d drop [out of] school in the middle of the year beca
Rev. Sarah Malete Discusses Raising a Child with Autism
Reverend Sarah Malete, an ordained minister of the gospel of Jesus Christ, was very excited when she discovered she was expecting her fifth child. She narrated to The Weight She Carries, “When l discovered that l was expecting my fifth child, we were all excited. l even wished it would be a girl since l only had one girl. When the scan was performed and we found out it was a bo
Accomplished Entrepreneur Tofara Chokera Shares Tips on How to Become a Successful Businesswoman
Growing up, she wanted to be a bank teller or a teacher. Now, she is a professional IT engineer, internet marketing expert and entrepreneur. "I never had aspecific dream. I admired the ladies who worked in banks because of how theydressed and looked. At the same time, I wanted to be a teacher, gettinginspiration from my mother who was already in the field," she said.
From Doctor to Award-Winning Author: How Maria Phalime Followed Her Dream
Maria Phalime had finally become a doctor but soon realized it didn't give her the fulfillment she hoped it would, and the demands of her job became overwhelming. She chose to walk away and has now found success as a motivational speaker, coach and author.
Sharai Makota Shares How She is Rebuilding Her Life After Tragedy
Going from being an able-bodied teacher to being paralyzed is not easy, especially when your partner who vowed to be with you through thick and thin files for divorce. The following story is about 57-year-old Sharai Makota who was involved in an accident that changed her whole life and how she managed to get back on her feet. This is her story:
How This Woman's Big Heart Led to a Special Relationship with a Child in Need
Despite losing two biological children, Sithembile Ncube has had the privilege of being a mother through being a caregiver to a paraplegic child. Sithembile Ncube grew up in Mberengwa where she attended school up to Grade 2. She failed to continue her education due to her parents splitting up. At a young age, she and her brother went to live with extended family members, but in
Burn Survivor Gertrude Katula Talks Finding Love and Purpose
My name is Gertrude Katula. When I was young, I used to lie next to the fireplace oblivious of the danger I was exposing myself to. However, when I was three years old, the reality of it dawned on me in the most cruel way.
How Priscilla Schaufelberger Survived Being Sexually Abused by Her Father
Born in 1959 in Ndola, a city in Zambia, Priscilla is the firstborn in a family of eight. She grew up with her grandmother in Twapia Township; however, her grandmother’s house was close to her mother's residence.
How I Started Over as a Widow After Losing Everything to my In-Laws
Esther Wanjiku Kabeni was wife to a corporal in the Kenya Defence Forces (KDF) until an unfortunate event in 2016. Not only did she lose her husband, his family was intent on stripping her of everything the couple owned, claiming all their household items belonged to their son. This is her story:
From the Loss of a Baby to a Life-Threatening Health Condition: How This Woman Survived Against all Odds
Nobubele Ngulube married her best friend in 2017 and the couple discovered they were expecting two months into their marriage."From the first day, it was challenging," Nobubele told The Weight She Carries. "I had severe morning sickness, headaches and fatigue for months on end. Around week 20 of my pregnancy I developed some swelling in my face, hands and feet. But because all
Learning to Love my Scarred Body
It was a normal day for Cynthia Kunze when she and her boss, who was also her friend, went home. They had crossed the first lane of the busy Simon Mazorodze Road in Harare, Zimbabwe, and were waiting to cross the other lane. Everything changed in a split of a second.
In-depth story: Rising from Rock Bottom – How This Ambassador for Good Governance Found Her Purpose and is Inspiring Change
After many years of success as a planning strategist for local and global organizations like the Africa Centre for Research and Technology, Plan International, UNICEF and United Nations, and helping African governments like South Sudan stabilize, she found herself out of work and robbed of nearly all her possessions – changing the trajectory of her life and forcing her to start
Acid Attack Survivor Reveals How She Learned to Love Herself Again
Flavia Nampiima was headed home from evening lectures at the university she attended in Uganda when a masked man followed her into my father’s compound and threw acid on her face. It was night-time and no in her family was at home that night.
How This Teen Mom Found Her Footing as a Single Mother
Becoming pregnant at the age of 14 was never in Tecla’splans, but due to naivety and peer pressure, it happened. Tecla grew up in a small mining town in Zimbabwe calledKadoma. Her parents separated when she was three years old, so her grandparentstook care of her. By the time she was in Grade 5, she was an orphan.
From Street Child to Motivational Speaker and Mentor
Motivational speaker and mentor Sylvia Khasoa Maina has come a long way since her humble beginnings. Through a series of unfortunate events, she found herself roaming the streets in search of food and shelter by the age of six. Now, she runs a program called Simama Na Dada which seeks to provide assistance to children and youth in need.
The Best Advice I Received on Grieving my Mother
Losing a mother is one of the most terrible things that could ever happen to anyone no matter how old they are. Relatives and friends may try to fill the gap, but it is never the same.
How This Respectable Banker Found Herself Imprisoned, Fought to Clear Her Name and Now Helps Women Rebuild After Incarceration
After serving one year in prison for a crime she did not commit, the reality of life behind bars for women in Kenya haunted her. Compelled to make a difference, she chose to dedicate her life towards helping women caught up in the judicial system.
Founders of Twin Connect Solutions Serve Up Double the Flavour in Tasty Treats and Empowerment
Twins Tafadzwa and Tatenda Rungisa, who are celebrating their 27th birthday today, are climbing the ladder of success one treat at a time and building a name for themselves as multi-talented businesswomen.
“Endometriosis Warrior” Discusses Thriving Despite Living with Excruciating Pain
Tinevimbo T. Matambanadzo, also known as Tine Mataz, spent years searching for answers for her intense periods. Finally, a doctor took a loser look and diagnosed her with endometriosis. Despite debilitating pain, this 28-year-old Zimbabwe native who holds a cum laude graduate degree from the University of South Africa (UNISA) in Community and Health Psychology, is living her be
A Second Chance
Fortunate Moyo claims her first husband abused her emotionally, financially and physically during the course of their 3-year marriage.
From Refugee to Fashion Designer
Tabisha Esperance was born in Goma, DRC in May 1990. When she was a child, Congo was plunged into a devastating civil war which officially ended in 2003, although fighting continued in the eastern part of the country, which led to many of the country's nationals fleeing to other countries. One of them was Esperance.
Fighting till the End: How this News Anchor Cared for Her Special Needs Child as a Single Mother
Since 2014, she has been presenting the news in one of the vernacular languages of Kenya, Kikamba. Being a news anchor has been her dream since completing her education. It took a lot of blood, sweat and tears to get here. And along the way, she lost the most precious gift of all: her child.
Surviving Trauma, a Broken Marriage & Widowhood – How I Turned My Pain Into Power
My Name is Samu Fortunate Zungu-Ludaka. I am a 33 years old widow. I am a mother to my two biological children and one step child from my first marriage. I am passionate about women and their upliftment, which has led me to using my gifts which are speaking and writing to not only highlight their issues but also to add hope and to encourage them.
Midlands Business Woman of the Year Silivia Choruwa Discusses Achieving Success After Losing Almost Everything
She recently won a business award, runs a number of successful small businesses ranging from furniture, clothing and hardware, and her fashion trends are top-notch. When you see her today, you will think all has been rosy and colourful. The Weight She Carries spoke to Silivia Choruwa to hear how it all began.
A Mother's Advice to Others Grieving the Loss of a Child
"I was happy just like any normal woman would be, happy to know l was expecting and on the twenty fifth of November l gave birth to a bouncing baby boy and named him Prince. I loved him wholeheartedly,” Bubele told The Weight She Carries.
Doreen Moraa Talks About Living with HIV/AIDS Since Birth
On August 8, Doreen Moraa will be 27 years old. This birthday will mean a lot to her because it will mark 27 years of living with HIV/AIDS.
In-depth Story: From Heroin, Cocaine, Meth Addiction to a Fulfilled Life – The Nandi Kegode Story
At the age of 16, her life changed drastically when the lifestyle she had become accustomed to quickly faded away. She was confused and angry because now, instead of flying to university in her father’s airplane, she was headed to the U.S. to join the military.
Community “Elder Sister” Discusses Opening Her Home to the Community
Lorna Wanyama has been a pillar in her community for over 20 years. What started out a preparing a simple meal for orphaned children in her community turned into a large extended family she always wanted.
How This Woman’s Faith Helped Her Fight Stigma and a Serious Health Condition
Tatenda Tanyanyiwa is a 40-year-old mother of an 18-year-old son. She grew up in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe, and is a gifted human resources practitioner who has gained a lot of experience in the hotel industry.
TWSC Submission: How Depression Almost Killed me
Depression has left my kids traumatized, my relationships with my colleagues ruined and my health in a fragile state. It could never had been this serious had I admitted I had a problem and sought help when I had the chance. Prevention is much better than cure; it’s unfortunate I am only realizing it now.
How HIV/AIDS Activist Asha Molock Found Freedom in Disclosing Her HIV Status
At 50, Asha Molock was enjoying a successful career as an educator in the School District of Philadelphia and had found love again. Life was flowing the way it should until a medical diagnosis shook her to her core. She was HIV-positive.
Finding Purpose After Becoming a Widow
Consolate Muga’s life changed drastically when she became a widow at the age of 38. She had relied on her husband to provide for her and their two teenage children over the years, and now she felt lost and alone.
Defying the Odds: How This Mother and Son Have Survived 40+ Surgeries
What Tia Wilson and her son Gavin have been through is unimaginable and a true testament of faith and strength.
Starting Over: How This Woman Revived Her Childhood Dream After a Failed Marriage
When Annie Liz separated from her ex-husband of ten years, life became very difficult for her. She had three children and no income.
My Experience Working in a Male-Dominated Industry
Jane Njeri is a peer educator and raises awareness of HIV/AIDS. She goes to various schools and educates students about safe sex and abstinence.
In-depth Story: Learning to Heal After Years of Abuse by my Stepfather
Jasmine Frazier had an enjoyable childhood. Her mother, a single mother of four, made sure holidays were special and created family traditions Frazier remembers fondly.
Finding Peace After a Series of Tragic Losses
Her life had been characterized by heart-rending loss and deep pain that drove her to a mental breakdown.
Kandice Benford Discusses Loving Herself Completely Despite Vitiligo
I am 33 years old. I’m a wife, a sister and I’m a hair stylist. What drives me is being able to spread vitiligo awareness and helping others with self-love and embracing who they are.
Dr. Natasha Williams Opens up About Painful Divorce & Masterclass ‘Reclaiming your Superwoman’
he was well-established in her career as a clinical psychologist, had a thriving private practice and a lovely home. While things were going well for her professionally, she was fighting a private battle at home. One that led to a heartbreaking revelation in 2017.
Beautiful Inside and Out: Felistas Edwards Speaks on Her Marriage and Life After Divorce
Felistas Edwards has a lot going for her. In 2018, the well-known Zimbabwean comedian, gospel artist, entrepreneur and MC received the Top Female Entertainment and Social Media Enterprise Business Leader of the Year Award from the Women’s Heritage Society World Organisation.
Homeless at 13: The Drive Behind This Woman’s Desire to Help Young Girls Living on the Street
Christine Khatima is an ambassador for Days for Girls Nairobi, Kenya. In her role as team leader, she conducts training sessions and travels across the region to educate and assess the need for sanitary pads for girls and young women. Then, she makes the pads using her own materials to meet the need.
Learning to Smile Again After Burying My Husband of Less Than a Year
On an ordinary day in 2015, Danai Motsi, met a well-dressed man while she was working at a local medical centre. The man walked in with a friend who was ill.
Singer/Songwriter Crystal Asige's Story: Losing My Vision
She was drawn to the arts as a child, and her dream was to be a musician and film producer. But in her teenage years, it became difficult to read the blackboard in class. Then, the words on the pages of her books began to get fuzzy. Her vision progressively got worse, and one day, she received a diagnosis that would change her life forever.
Author of ‘Weight Loss Wars’ Shares How She Took Control of Her Life and Lost Over 40 kgs
Certified Weight loss Coach Gertrude Nyirenda spent most of her life struggling with her weight. After years of yo-yo dieting, she decided she needed a different approach.
In-depth Story: Addiction Expert Caroline Kagia Shares Her Candid Story of Overcoming Alcoholism
When a schoolmate approached her wanting to be her friend, Caroline couldn’t believe her good fortune. She was cool, pretty and popular – everything Caroline felt she wasn’t. Little did Caroline know that this encounter would lead her down a path to addiction that would take her nearly 18 years to recover from.
TWSC Submission: Getting Back on my Feet After Losing Almost All my Relatives
I was born and raised upcountry. Growing up as a normal child, I found myself living with my maternal grandparents. I grew up with my younger brother whom we were so close in terms of age. I grew knowing my name as Grace, but once in a while, I would go out to the market and people would call me a different name. I was young and didn't understand until I was much older.
Woman who Contracted HIV as a Child Bride Now Spreads Hope to Others
Rebecca Auma spends her days mentoring girls and young mothers living with HIV in Migori County, Kenya. She knows all too well the devastation that comes along with such a diagnosis. Even more heartbreaking is how the young women she mentors contracted the virus – child marriage.
A Father’s Sacrifice Inspires Daughter to Fight Fearlessly to End FGM
Christine Alfons has been a fierce activist against gender-based violence and female genital mutilation (FGM) for the past seven years. She is so passionate about these issues she founded an organization called the Safe Engage Foundation, which aims to engage youth in child protection issues and ending FGM.
From Domestic Violence Victim to Mrs Universe Kenya 2018 Contestant and County Winner
Over the last year-and-a-half, Angela Mutie has been rebuilding the pieces of her life after surviving a painful marriage filled with physical, financial and emotional abuse. It has been a difficult and emotional journey, but she is reclaiming her life and is now at the forefront of the movement against gender-based violence in her community.
In-depth Story: Surviving a Life Filled with Tragedy
It is impossible to wrap one’s mind around the horrors Celine Njoki has experienced throughout her life. Though her life has been filled with valley experiences and abuse, she has found the strength and courage to keep pushing forward. For her, pain began very early on.
FGM Survivor and Founder of Murua Girls Shares How She Found the Courage to Tell Her Story and Help Others
Three years ago, Seleyian Agnes decided she could no longer be silent while girls as young as 8 were being mutilated in the Masai community she grew up in rural Kenya. It was time to share her story of surviving of female genital mutilation (FGM) and educate her community.
In-depth Story: Woman Forced into Marriage at 16 Now Helps Rescue Others
Thirty-year-old Josephine Miduma has made it her life’s mission to rescue girls who have been forced into child marriages and flee due to abuse or mistreatment. While her training as a social worker gives her enormous insight into societal ill and remedies, her own story has allowed her to be even more effective because she can relate to the girls she saves. At just 16, she was
TWSC Submission: Making It Out Of The Dark Tunnel
I waited almost 28 years to have my first child. I was not in a rush, in fact, I wanted to get married first. I told myself I wanted my relationship to be like my parents. They are my role models. They don't hold grudges against each other and taught us, their children, the principles of life. I wanted my marriage to work just like theirs, but it was not to be.
TWSC Submission: Finding the Courage to Leave and Start Over
I was born and raised in western part of Kenya. I lost my dad when I was only 6. Being the first born in a family of four meant working extra hard both at home and in school. It was tough, but I did all I could to make sure I helped my mother who was just a peasant farmer.
From Scorn to Bliss: Finding Real Love as a Single Mother
Gospel Artist Ashelly Manzunzu is living her dream. Not only does she have the opportunity to perform for tourists who visit the Disney World Animal Kingdom, she released her first album in 2013 (Zvakazarurwa) and is enjoying the success of two recent singles – Vanogona and Ndiye Mwari.
TWSC Submission: Learning to Forgive my Parents
I am a 26-year-old teacher and first born raised by a single mother. Well, I didn’t really grow up with my mother. I pretty much have been a nomad all my life, moving from one place/relative/friend to another.
Author & Entrepreneur Christine Mapondera-Talley Discusses ‘Makanaka’s World’ Entrepreneurship
ial entrepreneur Christine Mapondera-Talley has yet to meet a challenge she backed down from. From venture to venture, her creativity has guided her and catapulted her into a dimension where dreams become reality. If she couldn’t find the tools she needed along the way, she created them.
Raised by an Abuser – How I Survived Extreme Abuse at the Hands of My Stepmother
I grew up with a stepmother, my dad and siblings both older and younger. The house was never short of people, which was really great. My older sisters would bake cakes and cupcakes as well as sew. Being in a house full of people was wonderful for me.
Founder of ‘Butterfly Girls Project’ Shares Her story of Being Drugged and Raped
Gladwell Wachira was 15 years old when she left her family to live with her uncle and his children. She had just started high school and her parents thought it best since her uncle, who was divorced, lived closer to Wachira’s school.
Woman With No Limbs Shares Journey to Self-Love
Self-Development Life Coach and Speaker Sinikiwe Kademaunga is a confident woman who is passionate about impacting people’s lives through empowerment, motivation and mentoring.
TWSC Series: The Day My Village Was Burned Down – The Survival of an Internally Displaced Person
One fateful day, the inhabitants of Kwa-Kwa village were under a serious attack as the military forces attacked the village and were destroying and burning people's houses.
How Bestselling Author & Speaker Monica Kunzekweguta Escaped Becoming a Victim of Child Marriage
Bestselling Author, Certified Life Coach and Speaker Monica Kunzekweguta was born in Zimbabwe and raised by both parents till the age of three when her parents divorced.
Founder of Save Girl Child Empowerment Opens Up About Being Publicly Shamed For Not Undergoing FGM
“Lucy, you are abnormal between your legs,” are the words of a man that stung and reminded Lucy Weisiko of the shaming she experienced as a girl for not undergoing “the cut.”
TWSC Submission: The Story of a Traumatized Woman
When I look back, I cannot say I should have known better. I knew better but I was too blinded by love to face reality. I am now left with a limping leg and scars all over my once beautiful body.
Africa’s Youngest Woman PhD Holder Musawenkosi Saurombe Discusses Achievements, Challenges and Inspiration
In 2017, Musawenkosi Donia Saurombe made history by becoming the youngest woman with a PhD in Africa, graduating with a doctorate in industrial psychology.
In-depth Story: How This Successful Pastry Chef Learned to Love Herself While Battling Severe Generalized Anxiety Disorder and Mild Clinical Depression
“I am BRAVE. I am STRONG. I am WORTHY” are the three affirmations South African beauty Awande Mabaso pronounces each morning when she looks in the mirror.
In-depth Story: Brigitte Sossou Perenyi Discusses Captivity and Rescue from Religious Shrine
She was just seven years old when she was taken away from her family and left at a religious shrine dedicated to worshiping deities. This was the sacrifice needed to please the gods and atone for her uncle’s infidelity. She worked from dawn to dusk and lived a difficult life away from her family. Fortunately, she was rescued and now shares her story of hope and survival.
How Apostle Lillian Bwanya Pushed Past Personal Rejection and Founded a Church
Apostle Lillian Bwanya was born in 1968 in an area known as Rutanga, which is in Eastern Zimbabwe.
In-depth Story: Kimberly Coleman’s Inspiring Story of Surviving Sexual Abuse as a Child and Colon Cancer
Twenty years after walking away from a successful modeling career, Kimberly Coleman is back on the scene with a powerful story of survival.
TWSC Woman to Watch: Olive Nwaigbo – How this Fatherless Daughter Found Her Voice and is Inspiring Others to do the Same
Nineteen-year-old Olive Nwaigbo is not the average teenager. The young biochemistry student at the University of Science and Technology in Nigeria, is on a mission to inspire young women to value themselves, believe in themselves, and to own and be in control of their sexuality.
Liza Ngenye’s Remarkable Story of Fighting Cancer at the Age of 21
This is part of the message I sent to my dear friend Liza Ngenye in early 2012 when I found out about her cancer diagnosis. Liza and I had been friends since our mid-teens. We attended the same high school in Kenya, and college in the US.
In-depth Story: Founder of SMSKE Uses Experience as a Single Mother to Inspire and Support Other Women
Two years ago, Shiko Kamiri found herself in a situation she had never envisioned for herself. Her 11-year marriage came to an end and she was left to raise her two children on her own.
In-depth Story: Precious Miriam’s Story of Pain, Resilience and Faith
Twenty-seven-year-old Precious Miriam was born into a blended family in Cameroon. Although she had five siblings, she was the only child from her mother and father’s union. She was 9 years old when her father died.
Inspirational Speaker Barbara Kamba-Nyathi Discusses Overcoming Cancer and an Abusive Marriage
Barbara Kamba-Nyathi was born in Zimbabwe and moved to Namibia where she resided for 10 years with her ex-husband.
Founder of Waiting Wombs Trust Shares Personal Experience with Infertility
Eleven years ago, she married her husband and didn’t expect to have any trouble having children. But as the years went by, it became clear that she was having trouble conceiving. Though she had the full support of her husband and family, she felt stigmatized by her community. After years of physical and emotional pain, she decided to use her pain to help others.
In-depth Story: Cola Bennett Shares Inspiring Story of Surviving Multiple Rapes and Losing Her Son
In the midst of insurmountable pain, a ray of sunshine appeared. His name was Kayshaun. Finally, she had a reason to live. If no one else on earth loved her, he did. Life was now bearable because he made sense when life didn’t. Until his birth, love had been a convoluted concept to her, and efforts to find said love had left her a victim of rape four times over.
Zimbabwean-Canadian Doctor and International Speaker Spreads Message of Hope and Faith
Dr. Nothabo Ncube is a bubbly, down to earth woman who is a go-getter. As a doctor of medicine, international speaker and consciousness coach, Ncube’s list of accomplishments include being named Canada 100 Black Women to Watch 2017, participating in Oprah Winfrey’s Lifeclass, being a TEDx speaker, and being featured in Canadian Immigrant Magazine.
Fitness and Wellness Coach Discusses Keys to Positive Body Image and Why Size Isn’t a Factor
Body image is something many women struggle with in a world where “beauty” – defined by mainstream media – is unattainable for many.
In-depth Story: How Francisca Awah Mbuli Escaped Modern Slavery and is Helping Other Women do the Same
When Francisca Awah Mbuli returned to her native of Cameroon from graduate school in Norway six years ago, she had a difficult time finding work. Several years went by, and in 2015, she was approached by someone in her community whom she had grown up with. The man told Francisca about an opportunity to teach English in Kuwait and encouraged her to take the job because she is we
Living a Purposeful Life - Inspiration by Yvonne Mtengwa
Communications strategist Yvonne Mtengwa wears many hats. In addition to her vast knowledge and experience in marketing and public relations, she is the author of a book that encourages women to address conflict within themselves and in their relationships called Reinvented: Challenging insecurity to live authentically through faith, a real estate developer, and the co-founder
Cindel Hollancid discusses Winning 1st Runner Up Title in N.I.G.M.A. Christian Pageant
Source: Facebook On June 20th, the 2nd Annual Ms. National & Independent Gospel Music Association (N.I.G.M.A.) Christian Pageant took place in Greenville, South Carolina, USA. It was a big day for Cindel Hollancid. Back in March, The Weight She Carries had the privilege of interviewing Hollancid, who candidly shared her journey to self-acceptance by choosing to see herself the
In-depth Story: Restaurateur Zweli Moyo Williams Opens up About Surviving Hunger, Civil War and Abuse
Her days were spent longing for something to eat. On some days, a sip of water was a luxury. A civil war had gripped her native of Zimbabwe and separated her from her mother at the tender age of two. For five years, she was abused repeatedly in every way imaginable. But deep within her was a spirit of resilience so strong nothing could extinguish it.
Motivational Speaker and Mental Health Advocate Survives Domestic Violence, Flees Kenya to Start Over
Mary with friend and mentor Raphael Obonyo, policy specialist and youth advocate In 2017, Mary Wanjiku Gichuhi was completing her PhD at the University of Nairobi, was a well-known mental health advocate, and founder of Depression and Stress Society, an organization that was actively creating awareness on mental health. She worked with youth at different universities, leaders f
In-depth Story – Fighting Lupus: Olivia Clarke's Battle to Save the Life of Her Unborn Child
After months of not knowing what was happening to her body, she got onto a plane and flew thousands of miles, hoping to finally get a diagnosis. What had started out as some skin discolouration had turned into painful and burning skin that left scars all over her body. Over the months, the pain had seeped through to her joints and affected her ability to walk some days. This wa
Erica Elita Edwards Dishes on New Talk Show, Overcoming Challenges and Living with Sarcoidosis
In 2016, Erica Edwards packed up all her belongings and embarked on the 5-hour drive to Toronto, Canada, with two of her children.
Disability is Not Inability - Prudence Mabhena's Journey to the Stage
Source: Prudence Mabhena Prudence Mabhena was born in the resort town of Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe, in 1989. She was born with arthrogryposis, a condition characterized by joint contractures. In Mabhena’s case, her arms and legs were severely twisted and stunted. "When I was born, it brought shock to my family, especially my paternal family,” Mabhena told The Weight She Carries.
HR Expert Dishes on How to 'Employ Your Gift' and Operate in Your Purpose
Having hired and trained over 800 people over the course of her career, she knows exactly what it takes to successfully connect people with opportunities and equip them with the tools they need to excel professionally. But she does more than simply foster successful employment; she helps people walk into their purpose. Vonciel M. English, founder and owner of Perfect English De
Brenda Mudzimu's Journey From Being Labelled ‘A Curse’ to Creating a Platform to Celebrate Women with Albinism
June 13th marks International Albinism Awareness Day. To some it was just an ordinary day, but The Weight She Carries took this opportunity to interview a successful woman living with Albinism, Brenda Mudzimu.
Bold and Beautiful: A Woman's Triumph in Carrying Her Scars
She grew up with dreams like any other girl: to study abroad and have her prince charming sweep her off her feet. She didn’t know her life would take a drastic turn a few years down the line.
In-depth story: Chandi Rae Bozeman – How This Two-time Survivor Found Freedom in Turning Her Pain into Purpose, and Can Help You Do the Same
She was 14 and returning to her home country after living abroad for years. Life in Germany as an Army Brat had been filled with adventure as she mingled with people from diverse cultures. Moving every few years was normal for her family. But her normal was interrupted when she returned to her home city. Nothing could have prepared her for what would take place over the course
In-depth Story: Tonier Cain – How Treating Her Trauma Ended a 19-year Addiction and Transformed Her Life
Fourteen years ago, she lay on the cold floor of a prison cell at the end of her rope. Her surroundings were familiar to her because for 19 years, home had either been underneath a bridge or in a prison cell. In fact, this marked the 83rd time she had been arrested. Her situation was so grave she would never live a normal life, they said, not after nearly 20 years of addiction.
Don’t Pity Me Because I’m Childless
Being unable to have a child is hard. It’s exhausting.
From Dust to Success: A Village Girl’s Story from Devastation to Triumph
She was a happy teenager with big dreams. One fateful day, the trajectory of her life changed when she received devastating news about her father. With no source of income, her family struggled to make ends meet, and the future seemed bleak. But she refused to let her dream die.
Made in Africa: How This Woman is Taking Pride in Her Heritage and Celebrating African Artistry
When she decided to pursue her dream of starting a business, she knew exactly what she wanted to do. She wanted to honour her heritage and tap into a market teeming with natural resources and raw talent – Africa. But she needed to figure out how to connect the dots. For the past six months, she has done just that and has a successful line of African products that celebrate her
A Fighter’s Story: Feeling Whole Again After a Life Filled With Abuse
Memory Thandiwe Ndebele is a 32-year-old humble and bubbly woman. Just meeting her, you can tell she is a warm and big-hearted person. Nothing about her personality shows the dreadful situations she has had to face. Her second name, Thandiwe, meaning “Beloved” in Ndebele – one of Zimbabwe’s native languages – is very ironic to me after all she has been through. She is definitel
Born with a Fight: How This Remarkable Woman Refused to Allow Her Disability to Get the Best of Her
Born three months early and diagnosed with cerebral palsy, doctors didn’t expect much for her. She would have a difficult life and achieve very little, they concluded. They were wrong. She has surpassed all the expectations placed upon her. Having achieved academic and professional success, she is now using her experience and expertise to encourage and empower other people livi
Chamicka Pollock Discusses Keys to Professional and Financial Success
Nearly 20 years ago, she walked into a local Wells Fargo branch for an interview, dressed in one of her mother’s suits, and hoping to be hired as a personal banker. This was a big deal for a teenager, especially one who had been judged and discounted. But she believed in herself. Now, 19 years later, she is the bank’s Vice President – Regional Bank District Manager for Orange C
Defying the Odds: A Woman’s Story of Enormous Grief and Learning How to Speak Again
Following a series of deaths of significant people in her life over a span of seven years, the pain became unbearable and led her down a path that would cause doctors to declare that she would never be able to speak again. But she fought to prove them wrong. And now, she is on a path to becoming an inspirational speaker.
TWSC Submission: Turning to Prostitution Was Not the Answer
The following story was narrated to The Weight She Carries' contributor Ivy Chibanda.
How Learning to Love Herself Unlocked a World of Opportunity for This Successful Millennial
Owens started off with three classes a week and then progressed to four. Now she has started training instructors and only teaches one day a week in a session called “Mondays with Morgan”.
The Day I Decided to Stop Trying for a Baby
Like most girls, I dreamt of a big wedding and a house full of little feet and laughter. My dream came true, in part, and in 2013, I married my best friend. Since then, my husband and I have struggled to have a baby. The doctor said I had a partially blocked tube and my eggs were weak. After five years of trying conventional and unconventional fertility treatments, I have reach
Turning Away From Conventional Sanitary Napkins Changed This Woman’s Life
After years of enduring a heavy and intense menstrual cycle, toxic shock syndrome and endometriosis, she decided to take a closer look at the sanitary products she was using and discovered that the chemicals used in those products were wreaking havoc on her body. Janelda Cowan started her menstrual cycle shortly after she turned 10. From its onset, her period took over her life
How This Young Woman Living With Sickle Cell Disease Is Helping Countless Others
Not only has she dealt with debilitating pain all her life, she has lost numerous friends along the way. Now, she’s using her voice to speak up for many who are still trying to find their own voice. Her pain is unbearable on most days, but she is determined to continue touching the lives of those living with sickle cell disease. Jesscah Sharon Odhiambo was diagnosed with sickle
How to Support a Loved One Battling Depression from Someone Who Has Lived Through it
Following a series of traumatic events, she struggled to understand what was going on with her. Sure, she had experienced low moments in the past, but this time was different. This time she couldn’t shake the feeling of despair. And each day she plunged further and further into a hole so dark and deep she couldn’t find her way out.
In-depth Story: Cindel Hollancid – Going for the Crown
Every time she saw a modelling ad in the paper or on a billboard, her heart skipped a beat. The excitement, however, was always short-lived. After years of disappointment, an opportunity with her name written all over it fell into her lap one Saturday evening. This was more than just a pageant…it was an invitation to begin peeling away layers of insecurities that had left her b
TWSC Submission: The Day I Decided to Stop Protecting my Abuser
The following account was narrated to The Weight She Carries' contributor Ivy Chibanda. Shame, guilt and hatred is what I felt. It had been three years since he had started abusing me, but I never spoke out. I kept it inside. Given the circumstances, I felt I had more to lose if I reported my boss. I would lose my job, and my relationship with my relatives would be strained. I
In-depth story: Dr. Praise Matemavi - From Teen Mom to Transplant Surgeon
An unplanned pregnancy at the age of 18 threatened to derail her dream of one day becoming a surgeon, but she wouldn’t let it. Though she had every reason to give up, failure was not an option. As a single mother of two, she put herself through medical school and was the only woman in her residency class. She fought her way to the top in a male-dominated field despite hearing d
TWSC Submission: Why I Chose to Forgive
As we were walking back home after church service, my friends and I discussed the sermon on forgiveness. We agreed that forgiveness seems easy when someone tells you to forgive, but forgetting is the hardest part. The thought of how you were wronged keeps recurring in your mind and you become angry again. Walking with us was an elderly woman, a widow with four grown children. S
TWSC Submission: My Ruined Past
The following personal story was narrated to The Weight She Carries contributor Ivy Chibanda: I am not proud of my past, but when I look at young girls today, my wish for them is that they don’t repeat the same mistakes I made. If I could change my past, I would, but I can’t. All I can do is work on my future. During my teenage years, I became aware of my beauty. I grew into a
How This Successful Entrepreneur Is Letting Her Passion Lead The Way
What started out as selling snacks as a child has evolved into a knack for managing multiple brands and making major boss moves. With two successful companies under her belt, her formula for success is simple yet effective: Turn your passion into money. In the 11 years since completing high school, Sympathy Sibanda Mazuruse has made a name for herself as a successful businesswo
In-depth Story - Berlange Presilus: How This Fashion Model Learned to Embrace Her Rare Syndrome And is Now Putting Her Best Foot Forward
No one knew what was wrong. For years, doctor after doctor had thrown their hands up in defeat. They had never encountered such a mysterious condition in all their years of experience. Finally, after years of suffering a private battle that had left her physically and emotionally scarred, she found one doctor who said the words she had longed to hear her entire life: “I can hel
TWSC Submission: How I Became 'The Other Woman'
Growing up, I always envisioned my wedding day. How beautiful I would look in white, and how I would live happily ever after with my imaginary man. We would have four children, I always thought - two boys and two girls, and live a good life in a nice suburb.
From Around the World: When a Girl Goes From Child to Mother in One Day
What happens when a child loses both parents and has to suddenly become a parent to their younger siblings? Who steps in when tragedy interrupts the dreams of a young child? Sadly, oftentimes the answer is no one. A child-headed family is one where a minor becomes the head of the household. The high mortality rate in Zimbabwe has led to many child-headed families. The eldest gi