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Tackling Sexual Harassment In The Workplace

Over the last few months, several allegations of harassment and sexual misconduct have come forward regarding people like Harvey Weinstein, Ben Affleck, President George H. W. Bush, Louis C. K., James Franco, Matt Lauer, Kevin Spacey, and others. In response, the #MeToo movement was born that united women around the world in stating that this abuse of power is not just present

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 26 January 2018
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How Scammers May Be Targeting Your Loved One

According to the American Journal of Public Health, about 5.4 percent of elderly people are scammed each year, though the crime is likely underreported. It's sad that there are people who take advantage of the vulnerability of elderly people who are at the point in their lives where financial recovery is difficult, if not impossible. Part of the vulnerability results from lonel

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 18 December 2017
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Financial Abuse: Key Red Flags You Should be Concerned About

Dana* was married to Eric* and had a daughter with him. Eric and his mother would scrutinize Dana’s finances to the extent of examining her food purchases and trying to figure out whether or not she had gotten the most affordable options. As a result, she would visit several supermarkets to find the cheapest prices for everything she needed to buy. Eric made all the financial d

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 1 December 2017
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Caregiver Abuse - How to Deal With Mistreatment When Caring for a Loved One

In previous column posts, I discussed elder abuse as well as the burnout that caregivers may experience that might lead them to be neglectful or abusive. In this post, I want to discuss the abuse that caregivers can experience by those who depend on them for care. Caregiving can be a rewarding yet complex relationship filled with a wide range of emotions. Because of its demandi

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 23 November 2017
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Elder Abuse

This year the World Health Organization estimated that by 2050, the global population of people aged 60 years and older will more than double to 2 billion from 2015’s 900 million. The elderly are seen as sources of wisdom. Although they are often treated with care and respect, this is not always the case. As vulnerable members of our society, they can unfortunately be targets o

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 13 November 2017
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Caregiver Burnout - Signs You May Be Missing

Linda Maureen Raye was a woman who had been struggling to make ends meet and was homeless. Her mother, Yolanda Lorretta Farrell, had been living in a nursing home as she was unable to feed or clothe herself. Linda convinced Yolanda and the home that she could take on the sole responsibility of caring for her mother. Soon, she bought a one-bedroom apartment with her mother’s Soc

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 30 October 2017
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Online Romance Scams

Anna* was an Austrian woman who had recently divorced her husband and was encouraged by friends to give online dating a try. Within minutes of setting up her profile, she met Benjamin* who suggested they correspond via email instead of through the dating website. Benjamin told Anna he was an American soldier in Iraq, and after a series of emails, revealed that he had a teenage

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 20 September 2017
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Bullying in the Workplace

There is a common misconception that bullying ends when one reaches adulthood. What people are less aware of is the bullying that can occur in the workplace. Many child bullies do not outgrow their abusive tendencies and instead transfer them to new settings, such as the workplace. Bullies engage in their behaviour because they feel the need to control and maintain power based

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 3 September 2017
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Digital Abuse

When abuse is discussed, people tend to overlook digital abuse. This is form of abuse that is becoming even more prevalent in this technological age. Digital abuse involves using the Internet and/or social media to threaten or monitor a significant other in order to maintain control within the relationship. Digital abuse can be perpetrated on its own or in combination with othe

Rumbidzai Karen Musvosvi · 3 September 2017